"Where does it say that you have a contract with G-d to have an easy life?"the Lubavitcher Rebbe"Failure is not the enemy of success; it is its prerequisite."Rabbi Nosson Scherman
Wouldn't it be wonderful if all peoples would treat their elders as the Chinese people? I've seen it myself where adult children walk their mothers/fathers, who are elderly and/or not well, on a daily morning or afternoon walk. It's a pleasure to see.