An article titled Why Aren't Jewish Singles Getting Married? led me to the Beineinu Connections site which offers the following quote.
“The minute I stopped trying to find the right girl, and started trying to become the right guy...the girl came.” ― Jonathan Antin
Rokei'ach: Four Kinds Of Tshuvah That You Need To Do, Haba'a, Mishkal, HaGeder, HaKasuv
Six Months Later, Gabriel And Gayle Sassoon Open Up About Life After The Fire That Claimed Seven Of Their Children