The age of 80

The Torah tells us that Moshe was 80 years old and Aharon 83 when they stood before Paroh (Va'eira 7:7). Why is this so important to us? Rav Shimon Schwab explains that Aharon was born at the time that Paroh told the midwives to kill all Jewish born baby boys. Moshe was born three years later when Paroh decreed that every male born child must be thrown in the river. Both these decrees were made to ward off the prediction of the star gazers who foresaw that the redeemer of the Jews would be born at that time. Moshe and Aharon were sent to not only redeem Bnei Yisrael, but also to teach Paroh that Hashem controls the world and not him. For the first lesson Moshe asked Paroh to dig deep into his memory and recall the decrees of many decades ago. Then he proudly told him that he and Aharon were both children that should have never seen the light of day. Yet, because Hashem is in control, they both defied the decree and here they were alive and well... and ready to play the role of the redeemers that Paroh tried so desperately tried to kill.
http://www.revach.net/parshas-hashavua/quick-vort/Parshas-Va039eira-Rav-Shimon-Schwab-First-Lesson-Happy-Birthday-To-Moshe-amp-Aharon/4885

And speaking of the ripe old age of 80, here is a Yahoo article I came across about foods to eat to help prevent cancer.

To reduce your risk of cancer, look no further than your fridge. "All the studies on cancer and nutrition point to eating plant-based foods for their phytonutrients and other special compounds," says Richard Béliveau, PhD, chair in the prevention and treatment of cancer at the University of Québec at Montreal and author of Foods to Fight Cancer. Aim for five to nine daily servings of all kinds of fruits and vegetables—especially these six superstars.
Read full article: http://shine.yahoo.com/event/vitality/6-cancer-fighting-superfoods-2428408/

Travel and stress

A NYPost article titled Stories from the blizzard details people's experiences during the snowstorm in New York.
She got stuck at Kennedy Airport. The airline flew her luggage to London without her. She was trapped on the subway for seven excruciating hours, and she hasn’t had a decent meal in days.
Other than that, Doris Logie, how was your trip to New York?
“It was lovely,” said Logie, who has been trying to return to Scotland with her daughter, Alex, since Sunday. “We had a wonderful Christmas, but I’ll never come back at this time of the year.”
...Everyone knows something wasn’t kosher about the blizzard clean-up, and Guardian Angels founder Curtis Sliwa thinks he knows why — “gentile” salt.
“Kosher salt has always done miracles in New York City snowstorms,” Sliwa quipped. “Normally, when you have a big storm and you crunch in salt, your shoes get white. It’s not happening this time. There’s no crunching going on.”
http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/the_holiday_blizzard_WPiFfuBG68dSAAKa3W5nhJ

For those of you who have experienced distress while traveling, reading Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis's Rising Above Aggravation will perhaps help you gain a better perspective.

The frogs

Two articles

Click here to read Victor Sharpe's article titled Two nations under Islamic duress -- Serbia and Israel.
Click here to read Abraham Foxman's article titled The Arab Press' Nazification of Israeli Leaders.

To give

Caught a clip on CNN's heroes of the year about Narayanan Krishnan. Extremely inspiring and amazing what one person can do.

The religion list

Click here to read an interesting article by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach titled The End of the Rabbi As Mr. Nice Guy.
Click here to read an article titled HuffPost Religion's 10 Most Influential People of 2010.

I don't agree that all 10 should have made the list and I disagree with the reasons for their inclusion, but I'll let you decide for yourselves.

The possibility of the miraculous

Light a candle of truth

I caught a video of Prime Minister Netanyahu's speech at the 92nd Street Y in which he describes his meeting with the Lubavitcher Rebbe.

To be the best you can be

"Hu Aharon Umoshe" (6:26); "Hu Moshe ViAharon" (6:27) Rashi points out, that there are places where the Torah places Aharon before Moshe and there are places where it places Moshe before Aharon. This is to teach us that they are of equal significance (Shkulim Haym). The obvious question is, how can we say that Aharon was equal to Moshe? Doesn't the Torah say that there never was or will be a Navi as great as Moshe?
The Maskil L'David answers, at this point they were of equal significance. It was only after Mattan Torah where Moshe was alone for 40 days and nights with the Shechina that he elevated himself above Aharon.
R' Moshe Feinstein offers a different answer. Of course Moshe was greater than Aharon even at this point. They were of equal significance in the aspect that each one of them fulfilled his Tafkid (potential) in this world. Hashem does not look how great one is, rather if he was able to "be all that he could be". If one reaches that level, he achieved the highest level. Aharon reached that level; therefore in this sense he was as great as Moshe who also reached the level of fulfilling his total potential. This is a comforting thought for all of Klal Yisroel. We too have the potential to be as great as Moshe in this sense.
http://www.revach.net/parshas-hashavua/quick-vort/Parshas-Vaeira-Rav-Moshe-Feinstein-Moshe-Aharon-and-You-Can-All-Be-Equal/1594

A second chance

Justice, justice shall you pursue, that you may live...

A few days ago a story was making the rounds about a couple who had lost hundreds of thousands of dollars on a game show, despite having given the right answer.
A HuffingtonPost article describes how the couple have been invited back for a second appearance. Hopefully, justice will be served.

Time to say Good Shabbos

I caught a review of a book by Chana Sharfstein about her struggles during a life filled with difficulties.
In the self-published Beyond the Dollar Line, a new volume available for purchase from the Kehot Publication Society,... she lays bare her philosophy of life, much of it gleaned from guidance given her by the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson, of righteous memory. Over the course of 244 pages, she shares a multitude of stories, excerpts of conversations and correspondence, describing almost poetically how they continue to guide her more than 16 years after the Jewish leader’s passing.
...In another vignette, Sharfstein writes of some comments the Rebbe had to a draft of an article she wrote about encouraging other Jewish women to light Shabbat and holiday candles. In the article, she presented stories of women who had at first felt that it was “impossible” to commit to lighting candles each week.
The Rebbe, however, changed the word “impossible” to “very difficult.”
“Something that is viewed as impossible blocks change,” Sharfstein concludes in the book. But “very difficult means a challenge that can be overcome.”
http://www.crownheights.info/index.php?itemid=30971

This week INN and Yeranen Yaakov, among others, posted articles about Rabbanit Tzivya Eliyahu, widow of former Sephardic Chief Rabbi, who is encouraging people to observe the Sabbath.
Each individual can make a difference, she said, “When I asked the rabbi, he always said that even just one extra person keeping the Sabbath day could tip the scales in favor of everyone.”
“I am convinced that this is a favorable time,” the Rabbanit continued. “Many people have free time, and many Jews who unfortunately work on the Sabbath day can avoid doing so on the next two Sabbaths, the twenty-fifth of December and the first of January.”
http://www.israelnationalnews.com/News/News.aspx/141300

So, those of you who want to give it a try for the first time, remember, it is not an impossible task, but rather a very difficult one. And for those of you who think you will be bored, not partaking of your usual Saturday entertainment activities, why not spend the time and read Chana Sharfstein's new book?

The sighing and crying

"Vayei'anchu Bnei Yisrael Min HaAvodah Vayizaku; Bnei Yisrael sighed from the work and they cried." (Shemos 2:23). The Kli Yakar asks, "Why does the pasuk separate the sighing and crying instead of putting them together?"
He answers that there were two distinct reactions to the Koshi HaShibud. The first group were the good people. When they could no longer shoulder the pain, they cried to Hashem to relieve them. The second group cried but not to Hashem. They lamented their plight and complained against Hashem. "These two groups," says the Kli Yakar, "needed to be mentioned separately and not in the same breath."
History has shown this time and time again. Bnei Yisrael has faced many periods of oppression. Some people scream to Hashem, while some blame Hashem and walk away altogether. The Kli Yakar adds that pasuk ends, "Vataal Shavasam El HaElokim; The cries were heard by Hashem." But whose cries were heeded? "Min HaAvodah," only the group who cried to Hashem from the Avodah, and not the ones who rebelled because of it.
http://www.revach.net/parshas-hashavua/quick-vort/Parshas-Shemos-Kli-Yakar-Two-Reactions-To-The-Oppression-In-Mitzrayim/4878

Emunah and Bitachon

Interesting article at Aish titled When bad things happen by David Baum.

Ezri me'im Hashem

I came across an interesting thought about shidduchim relating to Eliezer's search for a wife for Yitzchak. Chapter 24, which details the story, mentions Hashem's name numerous times.

"Why is this?
To teach us that HaShem is the One behind selecting and finding our marriage partners with whom we match and can gel with. "Ezri (my help) me'im HaShem" - also explained to mean my ezer (ie ezer kenegdo; the phrase describing Chavah, and one's wife in general) is from HaShem . (heard on a R Krohn tape)"
http://www.shortvort.com/marriage/10397-a-shidduch-its-from-hashem

And, speaking about marriage, Rebbetzin Jungreis responds to a reader's letter about the loud music played at weddings.

Perhaps the time has come for parents to tell their children that at simchas they have a responsibility to consider the needs of their grandparents and other guests. Perhaps the time has come for young people not only to be concerned by what they want, but by what is right and comfortable for others.
Read full article: http://www.jewishpress.com/pageroute.do/46528/

Banning bus ads

As Fort Worth decided to ban religious advertisements on buses, perhaps Seattle will follow the same path in banning a different ad.

The message from Fort Worth, Texas: no more religious advertisements allowed, at least on its transit system.
Read full article: http://religion.blogs.cnn.com/2010/12/21/fort-worth-transit-agency-bans-faith-based-ads/?hpt=T2

Amid a furor over an upcoming Metro bus ad alleging "Israeli war crimes," two groups said Tuesday they intend to run their own ads that portray Israel as a victim of terrorism.
Read full article: http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2013734036_busads22m.html

An apple a day

An apple a day keeps the doctor away.

A hospital in Israel has begun using Apple's iPad to enable medical staff to help treat patients, provide consultations and study X-rays and CT scans from afar.
The Mayanei Hayeshua Medical Center, located in the largely ultra-orthodox Tel Aviv suburb Bnei Brak, said on Tuesday it is the first hospital to program the high-resolution, touch-screen iPad to interact with Microsoft Corp's Chameleon software used by hopsitals.
Read full article: http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20101221/tc_nm/us_ipad_medical_israel

A web of lies

“Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive”

Below are two fascinating stories about men who got caught up in a web of lies, leading to dire consequences. Better stick with the truth.

AN elderly fraudster who falsely claimed $690,000 in benefits for being a prisoner of war will spend his first actual night behind bars tonight after being jailed for four years.
The District Court in Brisbane heard the amazing tale of Arthur Rex Crane who wove a tale of fantasy in which he was a teenage World War II guerilla fighter who was captured and tortured by the Japanese in Malaya.
On the basis of his story Crane rose to the highest positions of the prisoner of war groups, which in the end was the catylst for exposing him as fraud.
....Judge Irwin said he accepted that Crane’s fraud was not for greed but rather a need to continue to be seen as a hero.
http://aussiecriminals.wordpress.com/2010/12/21/pow-fraudster-arthur-crane-jailed/

Adam Wheeler, the former Harvard student accused of conning his way into one of the nation’s most prestigious universities by fabricating a stellar academic record, pleaded guilty this afternoon in Middlesex Superior Court to larceny, identity fraud, and other charges.
Read full article: http://www.boston.com/news/local/breaking_news/2010/12/wheeler_who_all.html

The donkey

Adopt a Bubby

What a remarkable story about a young girl who took her kindness project seriously.

A tenth grade girl attending a private girls high school in Far Rockaway, made a routine phone call to her “adopted grandmother” this past Friday afternoon, December 17th, only to discover that the elderly woman had fallen and was unable to move or seek assistance on her own. Subsequently, the young woman phoned an emergency volunteer ambulance service and gave them all the pertinent information necessary for them to respond to the call. The ambulance arrived on the scene and rescued the woman.
Tova Fink, the tenth grade girl who performed the rescue attends TAG High School in Far Rockaway, and is a volunteer in one of the school programs called “Adopt a Bubby.” The program is part of a network of voluntary kindness projects in which students participate.
Read full story: http://www.5tjt.com/local-news/9014-high-school-girl-saves-elderly-woman

Behind closed doors

You shall not covet....
As the Yiddish proverb goes, everybody has his own pekkel . We each carry a knapsack through life, a parcel of problems, our own little bundle of tzorris. When you are young, you think difficulties are for “other people”. When you get older you realize no one is immune. Nobody has it all.
There is a famous folk story of a group of villagers who formed a circle and each individual opened his knapsack, revealing the contents for all to see. They walked around the circle of open parcels and everyone had the opportunity to choose whichever one he liked. In the end, each one chose his own.
http://www.stantgsm.com/newsletter/printver2401.html

From a superficial glance, one would think she had it all - youth, beauty and a high flying job. Her commitment to charitable work is documented in a New York Times article. If only I could be in her shoes, people must have thought, enviously. But, what led a twenty-seven-year-old investment banking associate to enter a West Side apartment building, take the elevator to the roof and jump to her death, is unclear.
Those who look at others with jealousy in their hearts may think twice. Sure, it looks rosy from the outside, but no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.
Today I am going to thank Hashem for creating me exactly as I am, for giving me the gift of life in which to strive to greater heights, and for giving me the opportunity to do mitzvot.

Forewarned is forearmed

A flight to Tel Aviv scheduled to take off from Liege, Belgium this evening has been delayed till tomorrow morning due to the snow. A friend's daughter is in the airport, waiting to find out whether she will be put up in a hotel. She took along enough food for one meal. Next time, I am sure she will pack more food, just in case.
Israel Matzav has written about "a group of ultra-Orthodox Jews who were flying from Zurich on Friday. They got stuck in Ben Gurion airport for the Sabbath."
If you fly before the Sabbath, give yourself enough time for delays and don't cut it too close.
And, always take an extra few sandwiches along. You never know when it may come in handy.
Good luck to all those traveling in this weather. And to my cousins who are stuck on the motorway near Calais, hope you get to London soon.

Altruistic donations

Harry Kiernan keeps giving bits of himself away. He has donated one kidney to a woman he had never met and a portion of his liver to a baby girl. He is on the bone-marrow register, waiting for a match. And when the time is right, he would love to donate part of his lung – if the doctors will allow him.
...“If you realise you have the ability to save a life, you don’t think about anything else but that,” he says.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/8147224/Altruistic-donation-I-could-save-a-life-and-thats-all-that-matters.html

The Washington Post has an article about Cheynenne Browne, an eight-year-old girl whose father, a firefighter, was killed saving her from a tornado.
..I met Cheyenne two weeks ago while covering a shopping spree sponsored by a volunteer group of Charles County sheriff's deputies. Each year, the Shop With A Cop program selects about 85 deserving youngsters, gives them $200 and takes them to Wal-Mart in Waldorf to buy clothes and gifts.
...I saw Cheyenne perusing the toy shelves when she spotted a fire engine- just like the one she used to ride in with her father and watch from the cab as he put out fires. She could have bought it for herself. Instead, she used the last of her $200 to buy gifts for her grandmother and friends.
Her selfless act inspired readers of the article to donate gifts and toys to Cheyenne.
Read full article: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/12/17/AR2010121706682.html?nav=rss_opinion/columns

Diamonds

Last week I attended a shiur about Chanukah. The lecturer stated that the Greeks only believed in what they could see with their eyes while the Maccabees believed based upon faith. He related the incident in Sanhedrin 100a about Rav Yochanan who was "sitting and teaching: The Holy One, blessed be He, will bring jewels and precious stones, each thirty cubits long, and thirty cubits high, and make an engraving in them, ten by twenty cubits, and set them up as the gates of Jerusalem... A certain disciple derided him saying, 'We do not find a jewel even as large as a dove's egg, yet such huge ones are to exist!' Some time later he took a sea journey and saw the ministering angels cutting precious stones and pearls. He said unto them: 'For what are these?' They replied: 'The Holy One, blessed be He, will set them up as the gates of Jerusalem.' "
When he returned from his trip, the disciple told Rav Yochanan that it was true what he had been teaching as he had seen with his own eyes what the Rav had described.
" 'Wretch!' he exclaimed, 'had you not seen, you would not have believed! You deride the words of the Sages!' He set his eyes upon him, and he turned in to a heap of bones."
http://www.come-and-hear.com/sanhedrin/sanhedrin_100.html

The very same evening I had attended the lecture, I came across the following article.
A US-British team of astronomers has discovered the first planet with ultra-high concentrations of carbon.
The researchers say their discovery supports the idea there may be carbon-rich, rocky planets whose terrains are made up of diamonds or graphite.
"You might see land masses and mountains made up of diamonds," the lead researcher Dr Nikku Madhusudhan told BBC News.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-11942451

Words and more words

As 2010 is winding down, Time has chosen Mark Zuckerberg as "Person of the year." Many statistics about this year are being compiled in the media including new words of 2010.
Nick Metcalfe picks a dozen notable phrases and expressions, both ubiquitous and unusual, that entered the dictionary during the last 12 months.
The list includes, defriend, catastrophising and microblogging.
Read full article for the complete list plus definitions.
http://news.uk.msn.com/uk/articles.aspx?cp-documentid=155532144

Speaking about words, the Washington Post published a few lines about the FDA beginning the process of revoking approval of Avastin, a drug used to treat breast cancer.
Federal officials say new evidence indicates the risks do not outweigh the benefits of Avastin for treating metastatic breast cancer.
http://voices.washingtonpost.com/checkup/2010/12/fda_revokes_avastin_approval_f.html?wpisrc=nl_natlalert

A discussion in the comment section refers to the typo in the article. Don't you mean the benefits don't outweigh the risks?

Confusing, isn't it? And for more confusion, below is a link to an article titled Roche's Avastin Blocked By US, Partly Backed By EU Regulators.
http://www.nasdaq.com/aspx/stock-market-news-story.aspx?storyid=201012161211dowjonesdjonline000543&title=roches-avastin-blocked-by-uspartly-backed-by-eu-regulators

The article offers contradictory recommendations about the drug. Wherein lies the truth? In the Torah, of course.

Friday, the tenth of Tevet

The Tenth of Tevet marks the onset of the siege of Jerusalem by Nebuchadnezzar, the King of Babylonia, and the beginning of the battle that ultimately destroyed Jerusalem and the Temple of Solomon, and sent the Jews into the 70-year Babylonian Exile. The date of the Tenth of Tevet is recorded for us by the prophet Yechezkel, who himself was already in Babylonia as part of the first group of Jews exiled there by Nebuchadnezzar, 11 years earlier than the actual destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem itself.
The Tenth of Tevet is viewed as such a severe and important fast day that it is observed even if it falls on a Friday (erev Shabbat), while our other fast days are so arranged by calendar adjustments as to never fall on a Friday, so as not to interfere with Shabbat preparations.
http://www.aish.com/h/10t/48960111.html

According to the Avudraham (quoted by the Beit Yosef), if this fast were to fall on Shabbat we would still need to abstain from eating, even though when Tisha B'Av (which marks the Temple's actual destruction) falls on Shabbat the fast is deferred until Sunday. Although this never actually happens, the Fast of Tevet is the only fast that we would theoretically observe on Shabbat, and is actually the only fast we celebrate on Friday, erev Shabbat....The question then remains, why is the fast of the Tenth of Tevet so severe?
...The Chatam Sofer also mentions another idea, that "the beginning of the tragedy (the Fast of Tevet) is worse than its culmination (Tisha B'Av) for then the redemption begins."
http://www.nishmat.net/article.php?id=439&heading=0

Incidentally, I heard a shiur this week that besides Yom Kippur and rhe fast of the Tenth of Tevet, the only other time one is able to fast on Shabbos would be for a taanit chalom.

A fishy story

Hamal'ach hago'el oti mikol-ra yevarech et-hane'arim veyikare vahem shemi veshem avotai Avraham veYitzchak veyidgu larov bekerev ha'aretz.
May the messenger who redeems me from all evil bless the lads, and may my name be declared upon them, and the names of my forefathers Avraham and Yitzchak, and may they proliferate abundantly like fish within the land.
And speaking about fish....

The Colbert Report	Mon - Thurs 11:30pm / 10:30c
Israel Shark Conspiracy
http://www.colbertnation.com/
Colbert Report Full Episodes Political Humor & Satire Blog March to Keep Fear Alive

The blessings of grandchildren

"Yesimcha Elokim k’Ephraim u’Menashe”
“May G-d make you like Ephraim and Menashe.”

One of the most beautiful customs in Jewish life is for parents to bless their children at the start of the Friday night Shabbat meal. Girls receive the blessing: "May God make you like the matriarchs Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and Leah." Boys, meanwhile, are blessed "to be like Ephraim and Menashe."
What happened to the patriarchs Abraham, Isaac and Jacob?! Why were Ephraim and Menashe chosen instead as the subjects of this important tradition?
Ephraim and Menashe were the first set of Jewish brothers who did not fight. Abraham's two sons ― Isaac and Ishmael ― could not get along, and their disagreement forms the basis of the Arab-Israeli conflict until today. The next generation of Isaac's two sons ― Jacob and Esav ― were so contentious that Esav repeatedly sought to kill Jacob and instructed his descendants to do the same. And even the next generation of Jacob's sons sold Joseph into slavery in Egypt.
Ephraim and Menashe represent a break from this pattern. This explains why Jacob purposely switched his hands, blessing the younger Ephraim before the older Menashe. Jacob wished to emphasize the point that with these siblings, there is no rivalry. (see Genesis 48:13-14)
It is with this thought that parents bless their children today. For there is no greater blessing than peace among brothers. The words of King David ring true: "How good and pleasant is it for brothers to sit peacefully together." (Psalms 133:1)
Reaad full article by Rabbi Shraga Simmons: http://www.aish.com/tp/b/sw/48956426.html

Turning a blind eye

Chief Rabbi Lord Sacks has launched a blistering attack on university authorities and warned that they must not “turn a blind eye and deaf ear” to the rise of antisemitism on campuses.
...“Let me be blunt. I believe that the inflammatory public speeches being allowed to take place on university campuses would, in any other context and directed against any other group, be prosecuted under the law forbidding incitement to racial and possibly religious hatred.”
Read full article: http://www.thejc.com/news/uk-news/42585/chief-rabbi-speaks-campus-extremism

Click here to see an ABC Primetime report about how people react to anti-semitic comments.

The blame game

After Adam and Chava ate from the Etz HaDa'at, they hid themselves from Hashem, apparently realizing they had done something wrong. When Hashem called out to Adam, asking, "Where are you?" (Bereishit 3:9), Hashem's intention was to give Adam an opportunity to admit what he had done wrong (see Rasag, Rashi, Radak), a key step in the teshuvah process. Unfortunately, the couple never admitted their sin. Instead, Adam blamed Chava, who in turn blamed the serpent.
http://www.chaburas.org/teshuva99.html

The family of the Stockholm suicide bomber last night blamed Britain for his transformation from an “ordinary teenager” to an al-Qaeda fanatic.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/terrorism-in-the-uk/8200044/Stockholm-bomber-family-blame-Britain-for-radicalisation.html?sms_ss=email&at_xt=4d06b1aa893310c1%2C0

A shark attack in Egypt’s Sharm el-Sheikh being blamed on Mossad agents, the Carmel fire being blamed on the Prime Minister, the Interior Minister - anyone but the youths who started the fire, and a slew of other stories about people blaming anyone but the perpetrators..... Where is the personal responsibility? Instead of protecting those responsible, let's begin to teach them that their actions have consequences.

An article today in IsraelNationalNews discusses how Arab youths who throw stones are protected by liberal organizations.
“Today, when one of these youths is arrested, he is legally permitted to basically sit in an interrogation room and make fun of police,” Indor said. “The youth is required by law to have his father present, so of course no headway is made in the interrogation. And besides, the youths have a whole array of liberal and leftist organizations, like B'tselem, at the ready to defend them, regardless of what they have done.”
http://www.israelnationalnews.com/News/News.aspx/141129

Imam Rauf partly blamed America for the September 11 attacks.
In 2001, Rauf told CBS’s ’60 Minutes’ that the U.S. was partially responsible for the September 11th attacks.
“I wouldn`t say that the United States deserved what happened. But the United States` policies were an accessory to the crime that happened,” Rauf said.
http://www.cultureandmedia.com/articles/2010/20100803163553.aspx

The reward of a good deed

The other day I was standing in line at the local grocery at checkout counter 1. The problem with checkout counter 1 is that the cashier alternates between providing service to the customers on line and customers who walk into the store and stand on a second line behind the counter, needing special services.
An older lady approached me and asked me if she could jump ahead of me on line as she only had a few items. Graciously, I let her pass in front of me. However, after ringing up the woman's purchases, the cashier turned her back to me and went to deal with the customers on the special services line.
"Serves me right," I thought to myself. "No good deed goes unpunished. Had I not allowed the woman to get ahead of me, the cashier would have totaled up my purchases and I wouldn't have had to wait all those extra minutes as she serviced a few customers on the second line."
Reading the article, below, however, restored my faith in the fact that it pays to do a good deed. Actually, I knew it before I read the article. Doing a mitzvah is a reward in itself.

A man in the Phillippines has won the country's largest ever lottery jackpot after letting a woman push in front of him the queue to get her ticket first.
Read full article: http://news.uk.msn.com/world/articles.aspx?cp-documentid=155519509

Remembering Gilad ben Aviva

This morning I received a translation of a letter written by Gilad Shalit's mother. Today I will pray for Gilad ben Aviva's release from captivity which is long ovedue.

This is my son. The first life that I created. Part of my body my soul and my love. I heard his voice for 20 years. From the moment he arrived in this world to our last telephone conversation:
“ Mom, I am returning home, can you hear me. “
I heard his voice as clearly as I heard his first cry as a baby. I can still hear his cry at night when he was a child. You never gave me peace to
sleep at night. I used to lie next to you pacifying you. When you were sick the first time, I was so worried about you. I took you to your first day at school and you made me promise that I would return to bring you home. This I promised you. I have never broken my promises to you. I have all your drawings on the fridge and the walls of the kitchen so that you would know that this is your home amongst your drawings and the memories of you.
You grew up to quickly in front of my old and tired eyes. At your barmitzvah I suddenly saw how quickly you had grown. I was the proudest
mother in the world. You grew up to be successful, charming and clever. (This is my son, I thought then, this is my son)
When you started going out with your friends part of me would go with you. I used to hug you and ask you to be careful.
“Don’t worry mom, I am a big boy”
I used to wake up at night looking at my watch and thinking, where are you, I am waiting for you to return home. All I wanted was for you to come back safely. When I heard you falling into bed from exhaustion, I knew that you were home safely with me. Then I would be able to go to sleep myself peacefully. When you got your driving license, I used to pray that you would travel safely and not swerve into the gutter and you would not knock another car. I hoped you would not drive if you did not have to. You never disappointed me and you were always responsible and happy. I was always thrilled to see your smile even though I had had sleepless nights worrying about you.
When you received your first call up papers to the army, my heart skipped a few beats. You were only 17 years old. You came back very proud and happy with big bright shinny eyes. I wished that you would not have to go to combat and that you would not get called to a dangerous
zone.
You just wanted to protect your country. It is not the country that raised you, it is Me, I who raised you. The day that you shut the door behind you and you travelled to do your army service. I counted the days till you would return home. I decided then and there that I would go to shul and to thank G-d and ask him to return my son to me safely. Instead of going out I would wash your uniforms and prepare food for when you would come home.
The day that I heard loud knocking on the front door, I knew something was terribly wrong. I opened the door praying that I would not see what I saw. Two uniformed army personnel and an army medic. One was your commander and he held my hand tightly. I did not have to hear the words he was telling me. The darkness cut the blood supply from my veins in my arm and I understood that something was terribly wrong.
In the news they show your photographs. I go to shul and I pray. I pray all the time, even when I am sleeping, I am praying. This is my son, my son who was snatched into Gaza. My son who might never return.

Threatened with destruction

A group of Islamists demonstrated on Sunday at the tomb of biblical Jewish queen Esther in western Iran and threatened to destroy it if Israel damages Al-Aqsa mosque in Jerusalem, Mehr news agency reported.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20101212/wl_mideast_afp/iranisraelpoliticsheritagedemo_20101212144740

King Achashverosh chose Queen Esther as his second wife. Read full article below to find out about another individual who was looking for a second wife.

A suicide bomber who died in a terrorist bomb attack which rocked Stockholm city centre, is believed to be a graduate from a British university.
Read full article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1337930/Suicide-bomber-died-Stockholm-terrorist-blasts-studied-British-university.html

Alei Ayin

Ben Poras Yosef, Ben Poras Alei Ayin" (Vayechi 49:22). Rashi says that this means that Yosef will multiply and be beyond the reach of Ayin Hara. As a reward for not taking his master's wife, no one will be able, through jealously, to inflict any harm on what belongs to him.
The Shulchan Gavo'a brings from Rav Eliyahu Dessler that no matter how rich a person is, no one is ever jealous of a totally selfless person whose whole life is about giving. An element of jealousy stems from the intended or even unintended flaunting of oneself before others.
Yaakov gave Ephraim and Menashe a bracha "V'Yidgu LaRov" they should multiply like fish. There are two attributes of fish that Yaakov had in mind. Fish are not seen from the dry land. Moreover the fish live a life totally separated from the inhabitants of the land. They don't compete with them in any way. That is why the Ayin Hara does not affect them.
If a person lives a life of Yosef, where he doesn't want what doesn't belong to him, and he lives and enjoys his material assets out of the public eye, he too will not suffer from any unwanted evil eyes.
http://www.revach.net/parshas-hashavua/quick-vort/Parshas-Vayechi-Rav-Eliyahu-Dessler-Yosef-And-Ayin-Hara-Avoiding-The-Evil-Eye/3253

A life not in vain

by Rabbi Dr. Raymond Apple
"Jacob’s life ended with 17 good years. Having settled in Egypt he derived pleasure from his son Joseph, whose high position in the Egyptian government gave him nachas. These 17 years paralleled another 17 years in which, so long before, he had derived nachas from Joseph as a child and young teenager. The father’s dream had come true. After the years of agony came the ecstasy of seeing all his children together, united in shalom bayit.
But there was still a worry at the back of Jacob’s mind. What would happen after his death? Would the idyll be shattered? Would the family survive? Would they compromise the values and standards he had tried so hard to teach them? He tried three things as his final endeavour on behalf of the family and the future.

1. He pleaded with Joseph, “Bury me not in Egypt”.
2. He called upon all his children, “Gather yourselves together and listen, O Children of Jacob”.
3. He urged, “Listen to Israel your father”.

The three statements all conveyed important messages: the first, “Know that Israel is your homeland”; the second, “Do not let family unity disintegrate”; and the third, “Remain true to the teaching of your forebears”.
What a contrast to the contents of so many last wills and testaments today. Money, material assets, tangible things – that is what most people are concerned with. Apart from the tragedies that come when the disposition of material things leads to friction in the family, where are the deeper spiritual, cultural, human dimensions? It is very nice to be grateful for a handsome yerushah, but isn’t it more important in the long run to remember your parents for their words, their ideas, their visions, their standards? When there is a crucial moment requiring a decision, is it not good to see father or mother in your mind’s eye and know which option they would prefer you to take?
The message for parents while they are alive is to remember Jacob and ensure that they leave their children not only things that are tangible, but also the type of message that will ensure that their life’s experience will not have been in vain."
http://www.oztorah.com/2007/12/a-will-a-way-vayyechi/

Maomonides Hospital's chief patient rep, Douglas Jablon, was featurd in the Mishpacha magazine last week. He stated, "I'm nuts about my name. When my father died, he didn't have any money; he told me, 'take care of my name. It's all I have.'"

In contrast, Bernie Madoff accumulated many material possessions. What a sad ending to his son's life this weekend.

How old are you?

An insightful thought about Parshat Vayigash explained by Rabbi Shimon Isaacson.

Rain rain - don't go away

"The Ben Ish Hai says that it is a great segula to daven on a rainy day."
http://www.ohrdaniel.com/segulot.html

This morning I had a conversation with a woman about her family. She told me that her six-year-old granddaughter was very excited to see that it was raining. Her teacher had taught her that it was an auspicious time to daven to Hashem when it rains as G-d opens up the Otzrot Shamayim (heavenly treasures) during that time.
The girl began to pray to Hashem while her mother eavesdropped in the background. First she asked for Hashem to bring the Mashiach and that the Beit Hamikdash should be rebuilt. Then she asked that her father should be able to spend his days engaged in full-time Torah learning. Next she asked that her grandparents should move to where she was living so that she could see them all the time.
She ran over to her three-year-old brother, explaining to him that it was a special time to ask Hashem for those things he wanted. The boy asked for a car and a new toy.
A little while later, the children's mother overheard her "spiritual" daughter ask Hashem if she could have some videos to watch sometimes.
Yes, the little girl eventually asked for something in the material realm. But, at least, her priorities were spot on.
How about ours?

No smoking

Above is a photo from an email I received titled "Painted ceiling at smokers' lounge."
Yesterday I was walking behind a group of students that had just finished school for the day. I was shocked to see a young boy smoking a cigarette. "They are really starting early these days," I thought to myself.

Today an Israeli newspaper is reporting that MK Gideon Ezra of Kadima,with extensive support of parliamentarians, has filed a law requiring all high school age students to attend special classes and presentations explaining the dangers of smoking and the damage caused by cigarettes.
MK Gideon Ezra is a heavy smoker who was diagnosed with lung cancer recently. Because of his own experience he is convinced that it is important to avoid the first cigarette, which - generally is taken at a young age.
MK Ezra initiated the bill against the background of data indicating a growing percentage of boys starting to smoke at an early age.
Read article in Hebrew: http://www.bhol.co.il/Article.aspx?id=22321

E pluribus unum

"Never codified by law, E pluribus unum was considered a de facto motto of the United States until 1956 when the United States Congress passed an act (H.J. Resolution 396), adopting In God We Trust as the official motto."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/E_pluribus_unum

WND has an interesting article which states that "Members of the Congressional Prayer Caucus have written to President Obama asking him to correct a speech he gave in Indonesia incorrectly replacing the nation's motto of '"In God We Trust"' with '"E pluribus unum."'
...I believe that the history of both America and Indonesia should give us hope. It is a story written into our national mottos. In the United States, our motto is E pluribus unum – out of many, one.
Read full story: http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=237349

The actual letter, dated December 6, can be accessed here.

The haftorah of Parsat Vayigash is from Yechezkel 37: 15-28. It is interesting to note how closely the words of Yechezkel relate to G-d and unity. May the the words of the prophet be fulfilled. May we be as one. Why don't we begin by making amends with someone with whom we have fallen out? Pick up the phone and make the first gesture.

21 And say unto them: Thus saith the Lord GOD: Behold, I will take the children of Israel from among the nations, whither they are gone, and will gather them on every side, and bring them into their own land;
22 and I will make them one nation in the land, upon the mountains of Israel, and one king shall be king to them all; and they shall be no more two nations, neither shall they be divided into two kingdoms any more at all;
27 My dwelling-place also shall be over them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.
28 And the nations shall know that I am the LORD that sanctify Israel, when My sanctuary shall be in the midst of them for ever.

Yosef's tears

And Yosef fell on the neck of Binyamin and wept, and Binyamin wept on his neck. Yosef then kissed all his brothers and wept on them. Rashi says, Yosef cried over both Batai Mikdash that will be destroyed in the portion of Binyamin in the future. Binyamin then cried over Mishkan Shilo which will be destroyed in the portion of Yosef. What historical episode did Yosef cry about when he wept over his brothers?
The Meforshim explain, he wept concerning the Asarah Harugay Malchus. The 10 Martyrs that would be killed in the time of the Romans as a punishment for the sale of Yosef. The pasuk alludes to this when it says, "VaYaivch Alayhem" - he cried over them. The word "Alayhem" means - "Al" (Ayin Lamed) - on, "Yud" - the 10 , "Hay Mem" - is an acronym for Harugay Malchus. The pasuk is saying, "VaYaivk - and Yosef cried "Alayhem" Al Yud Harugay Malchus.
http://www.revach.net/parshas-hashavua/quick-vort/Parshas-VaYigash-Yosef-Cries-Over-the-Asara-Harugei-Malchus/1498

If life gives you lemons

Here are two items about people making the best out of not the best circumstances.
The first is about a called-off wedding and the second relates to being stuck in traffic.

She wasn't a blushing bride, but Robin Rogers' canceled wedding reception raised $10,000 for the hungry instead.
The Queens College professor turned her called-off nuptial get-together into a fund-raiser and hosted a party for at least 45 people, which raised much-needed funds for a Brooklyn church yesterday.
"I feel great," said Rogers. "When something doesn't work out, it's sad, but I'm really glad we got something good out of it."
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local/2010/12/06/2010-12-06_canceled_weddingturnedfundraiser_nets_10000_for_the_hungry_gives_broken_engageme.html#ixzz17RZE4Mk5

The full Hallel

Today is the first of the two Rosh Chodesh ("Head of the Month") days for the month of Tevet (when a month has 30 days, both the last day of the month and the first day of the following month serve as the following month's Rosh Chodesh).
The Yaaleh V'yavo prayer is added to the Amidah and to Grace After Meals, and the additional Musaf prayer is said (when Rosh Chodesh is Shabbat, special additions are made to the Shabbat Musaf). Because it is also Chanukah today, the "full" Hallel (Psalms 113-118) is recited (and not the "partial Hallel" said on the Rosh Chodesh days of other months).
http://www.chabad.org/calendar/view/day.asp?tDate=12/7/2010

It is preferable to use oil for the lighting of the Hanukah candles, since the miracle which we celebrate involved the oil of the Menorah in the Temple. Specifically, it is preferable to use olive oil - the oil that was used for the kindling of the Menorah.
For the same reason, there is a widespread custom to eat fried foods on Hanukah, to commemorate the miracle of the oil. It is common to eat fried sweetened donuts, generally with jelly inside to enhance the sweet taste.
http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=2050

One man

Rabbi Levi Brackman writes a moving tribute for Rabbi Uriel Malka, who was niftar this week, a victim of the Carmel fire. It is eerie to watch a video in the middle of the article of his blowing shofar earlier this year, so full of life and joy.
Rabbi Brackman writes about Rabbi Malka's unique contributions to the Jewish community he served.

This week is Hanukkah, when we are celebrating the victory of the weak over the strong and the few against the many. Often we tend to want to just live our own lives as if we are detached from the wider Jewish community. We tell ourselves that we have too much of our own to worry about. But when tragedy comes around we are forced to face the fact that we are still few compared to the many – we Jews are collectively a relatively small community. Each person's contribution is important and no one should be taken for granted.
Read full article: http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3994800,00.html

Accidents and Tehillim

Last week I received an email with a weekly update from Manhigut Yehudit. Among the items was a progress report on Dovid Feiglin, son of Moshe Feiglin, who was critically injured in a car accident at the end of June. Michael Fuah writes the following:
I went to see David Feiglin today. He walked into the room on his walker. When I made the blessing for good tidings, he answered "Amen!" with a big smile.
He identified the friends sitting in the room by name, and gave each one a pat on the shoulder.
We feel that G-d is hearing our prayers.
The medical staff estimates that David will still need many long months of rehabilitation and does not know when they will end. Please continue to pray for the complete recovery of David Yosef ben Faigeh Perel. May we all dance together at the feast of thanksgiving for his recovery!

The Yeshiva World posted an item about a young man involved in a skiing accident.

Please be Mispallel for a 22-year old Yeshiva Bochur who is in critical condition Sunday night after being involved in a skiing accident in Vermont.
His name is Yitzchok Menachem ben Hadassa Blima.
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/General+News/77588/TEHILLIM---Yeshiva-Bochur-Critical-Following-Skiing-Accident-%5BUPDATED%5D-.html

One comment posted included, "Why don’t we split up the Tehilim, I’ll take 1-10 (incl.) May he have a refuah shleima."

As I read about the slow but steady recovery of Dovid Feiglin, I was reminded how grateful we should be when things are going right. May David Yosef ben Faigeh Perel and Yitzchok Menachem ben Hadassa Blima merit a refuah sheleima.
I'm signing off for now, as I am planning to say some chapters of Tehilim for the young men.

Seizing the moment

Last night I caught an amazing video of a hero identified as "Angel" who pulled a man off a train track with only seconds to spare before being hit by an oncoming train.
An off-duty member of Spain’s National Police became a hero after rescuing a man who lost his balance on the platform and fell on the tracks at Puerta del Angel Station of the Madrid Subway.
...The National Police has only issued one piece of information on its agent who has chosen to remain anonymous: he was identified as Angel.
Read more: http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/301070#ixzz17GbyAsw1http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/301070

Kudos to "Angel" for seizing the moment and acting as an angel at Puerta del Angel station.

I found another article relating to seizing the moment in a New York Times wedding announcement of a 55-year-old widow and a 62-year-old widower.

“When you reach a certain age in life, you’ve had numbers of life experiences and the old adage of ‘seize the day’ becomes all the more meaningful,” he said. “We wanted to be together in an enduring way.”
Read full article: http://www.nytimes.com/2010/12/05/fashion/weddings/05singer.html?ref=weddings

Is my father still alive?

A number of times before he revealed himself to his brothers, Yosef asked them if their father was alive and they answered in the affirmative. Now when Yosef says "Ani Yosef" he immediately again asks "Ha'Od Avi Chai", is my father still alive. Why does he ask it again and why in the same breath as his great revelation? Furthermore we don't see that the Shevatim answered this question at all. The Bais HaLevi answers that the medrash says that great embarrassment the Shevatim had when Yosef revealed himself will be nothing compared to our embarrassment when we come to Shamayim to our own judgment day. What is the connection?
He explains that Yosef was questioning the consistency of his brothers in their protection of Binyomin. They claimed that they would fight to their death over him because it would kill their father if he were not brought back alive. To this Yosef retorts "I am Yosef", you told my father I am dead and he is still alive so why are you so concerned now?
When we come to Shamayim we will have many excuses to justify our behavior, says the Bais Halevi. However many of the charges we will face will deal with our own internal inconsistencies. You were too tired to help someone who needed a favor? Okay that sounds like a good excuse. But wait! Look here when you were doing something for yourself. Then you had plenty of energy! These are the most embarrassing questions of them all and this is the question that Yosef asked his brothers. For questions like this the Shevatim didn't have an answer and neither will we.
http://www.thejewisheye.com/rev_pvayigash.html

The Chanukah flames

Israeli police arrested two suspects in connection to a deadly wildfire raging in the country's north, though a police spokesman said appears the fires started out of negligence.
...British Prime Minister David Cameron instructed the Royal Air Force to deploy two helicopters from Cyprus to help put out the fire, British Foreign Secretary William Hague said Friday.
Hague expressed his condolences to the families of the victims and to the thousands who have had to be evacuated because of the blaze.
"This tragedy is all the more sad as it comes as the Jewish community around the world celebrates Hanukkah, a time of hope and joy," Hague said.
http://edition.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/europe/12/04/israel.forest.fires/index.html?hpt=T2

A Debka article reveals that "police spokesmen reported that an initial probe had shown the Carmel fire was set off Thursday, Dec. 1, by the carelessness of an Isfiya family who neglected to put out the nargilla they were smoking."
http://www.debka.com/article/20425/

Click here to read an article titled Hanukkah in the Age of Wikileaks by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach.

Making a spectacle

The following is an excerpt from an email by Rabbi Eli Mansour about this week's parsha - a lesson for one and all.

The Torah relates that Yaakob Abinu, too, sent his sons to Egypt to purchase grain. When he proposed the idea to his sons, he asked them, "Lama Titra'u?" (42:1), which literally means, "Why do you make yourselves conspicuous?" The commentaries explain that Yaakob and his family still had food provisions at this point; they had not reached the point where they needed to purchase grain from Egypt. However, Yaakob was concerned about what the surrounding peoples would think upon seeing him and his family enjoying financial stability while they were without food. Everybody else was forced to travel to Egypt to buy food. If they saw Yaakob and his family enjoying relative stability while everybody else in Canaan had nothing and had to buy grain from Egypt, they would naturally feel envious and resentful. Yaakob, wisely, knew he had to avoid these hostile feelings. He therefore said to his sons, "Why should we make a spectacle? Why should we appear wealthy while everyone else is struggling? Why draw this kind of attention to ourselves?
...Yaakob's remark to his children conveys a critically important message specifically for our day and age, when, by and large, we enjoy prosperity and material comforts. Contemporary society teaches, "If you have it, flaunt it." Yaakob Abinu, however, teaches us to do just the opposite.
...Yaakob understood what far too few people today understand - that showing off material success, especially in periods of financial instability, invites hostility, not admiration. When a person flaunts his wealth, people around him become resentful - not his adoring admirers.
Read full article: http://www.dailyhalacha.com/WeeklyParasha.asp

Prayer for success of rescue efforts

Tehillim 89:
47 How long, O LORD, wilt Thou hide Thyself for ever? How long shall Thy wrath burn like fire?
מז עַד-מָה יְהוָה, תִּסָּתֵר לָנֶצַח; תִּבְעַר כְּמוֹ-אֵשׁ חֲמָתֶךָ

To recite full perek click here.
INN reports that "At 10:00 Thursday evening, a prayer will be recited at the Western Wall of the Temple in Jerusalem (Hakotel Hama'aravi) for the success of fire and rescue efforts in the Carmel Ridge fire, as well as a prayer on behalf of the victims."
http://www.israelnationalnews.com/News/Flash.aspx/199179

...Due to the fire in Northern Israel, the Roshei Yeshiva of Ponavez have instructed the entire to gather in the Bais medrash and recite Tehillim.
...Hagon Chacham Ovadia Yosef Shlita reacted with tears upon hearing of the tragedy, and called on Am Yisroel to join him in davening that the fire be brought under control, and for the memory of the Niftarim.
http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/news/General+News/77172/VIDEO-%26-PHOTOS%3A-Inferno-In-Israel%3B-50-Killed%3B-Netanyahu-Appeals-For-International-Assistance%3B-Peres-Says-Pray-For-Chanukah-Miracle%3B-Ponavez-Gathers-For-Tehillim-%5BUPDATED-2%3A57PM-EST%5D.html

Sweden's loss- Israel's gain

Marcus Eilenberg is a Swedish Jew whose family roots in Malmo run deep. His paternal grandparents were Holocaust survivors who found shelter in this southern Swedish city in 1945. His wife's parents fled to Sweden from communist Poland in the 1960s.
Now the 32-year-old law firm associate feels the welcome for Jews is running out, and he is moving to Israel with his wife and two children in May. He says he knows at least 15 other Jews who are leaving for a similar reason.
That reason, he says, is a rise in hate crimes against Jews in Malmo, and a sense that local authorities have little desire to deal with a problem that has exposed a crack in Sweden's image as a bastion of tolerance and a haven for distressed ethnic groups.
Anti-Semitic crimes in Europe have usually been associated with the far right, but Shneur Kesselman, an Orthodox rabbi, says the threat now comes from Muslims.
Read more: http://www.crownheights.info/index.php?itemid=30406

Swedish TV4’s investigative programme Kalla fakta has broadcast the first of a two-part documentary detailing how Queen Silvia‘s late father grew rich producing armaments in a factory stolen from the Jews.
When she married in 1976 the Queen’s German father Walter Sommerlath denied he had ever been a member of the Nazi party. That fiction was exposed some years later by a Swedish newspaper which proved he joined the movement in 1934.
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1334729/Fresh-scandal-Swedish-royal-family-Nazi-past-Queen-s-father-revealed-TV-documentary.html#ixzz16wvL9pmZ

Light one candle

As Jewish leaders in Germany set up a display of a prominent Jewish symbol, students at Indian University have to contend with anti-Semitic acts.

The leaders of Berlin's Jewish community set up a 20-foot (six-meter) tall menorah for Hanukkah on Wednesday against the backdrop of one of Germany's most historically important symbols, the Brandenburg Gate.
..."This square represents Germany like the Statue of Liberty represents America," Rabbi Yehuda Teichtal told The Associated Press. "Therefore, it has great meaning to us at this very spot that was once the essence of darkness and evil to set a tone of light."
Read full story: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20101201/ap_on_re_eu/eu_germany_hanukkah

The Bloomington Herald-Times is reporting Hebrew texts were taken from the shelves at Indiana University's Wells Library and distributed to eight different bathrooms within the library, where they were urinated on.
...That's the latest in a series of anti-Semitic incidents this week, which includes rocks being thrown through windows at Jewish centers for students - twice at the Chabad House Jewish Student Center and once at the Helene G. Simon Hillel Center.
Read full story: http://www.fox59.com/news/bloomington/wxin-another-attack-on-bloomington-113010,0,1189019.story

Rejoicing with just a dreidel

Two views on dreidels. Spiritualism versus materialism. Which view is yours?

On Chanukah we spin dreidels upon which are inscribed the first letters of the words, "neis gadol ha'yah sham" -- a great miracle happened there. We rejoice with our dreidels, but we spin them specifically from their top part to constantly remind ourselves that Chanukah was a time when miracles came gratis, when God bestowed His infinite compassion upon His people and things began to spin down to us in the form of undeniable miracles.
...This Chanukah, let's get the inspiration started from below. We must do our utmost to unite as a nation, to work together as individuals and as a People on growing in all areas of spirituality, and hopefully we'll trigger God's mercy and miracles like never before. Let's increase our charity, good deeds, dedication to prayer,
Read full article: http://www.aish.com/h/c/t/dt/48965186.html

And there’s another way — for it is supposed to be a children’s festival, after all —in which Jewish children celebrating Hanukkah feel short-changed alongside their Christian friends gearing up for Christmas. The presents. Or rather, the lack of presents. No train sets or roller skates for Hanukkah, no smartphones or iPads. Just the dreidel, the four-sided spinning top with a letter of the Hebrew alphabet on each surface.
Read, full article: http://www.nytimes.com/2010/12/01/opinion/01jacobson.html?pagewanted=2&_r=1&hpw